This is a story as gut twisting as any I have read. The fact that he touched her is bad enough, add insult to injury she had to carry a child to term by her rapist and go through a delivery at 11 years old. I was not having periods at 11 years old. Where was this child's Mother? Where was this child’s Father? Grandparents? Aunts, Uncles? I am overcome with rage and pity and stunned by the blind eye turned to this diseased animal's torture of this baby. If the mother of this child knew she was being victimized and did not take her out of this situation them she is worse than the rapist. He is a pig born and will die one; she is the child's mother. She has the God given duty to protect that child at all costs. I can only pray he gets a life sentence like the other rapist from Houston got this week. I don't want a child predator to EVER be on the street again once they have been found out. I don't care if they raped, fondled whatever. Any inappropriate contact with a child and you are locked away for life solitary confinement or death.As a jury member especially in this case where there is DNA to prove he fathered a child with a then 10 year old baby the death penalty would easily come from me. He does not deserve to take another breath on this earth and his departing this earth quickly to hell is justified in my eyes.People will argue this is not a capital case no one was killed. WRONG, a child was killed she is still breathing but she is none the less dead. She is no longer a child, a baby that can never fully trust anyone and she will never fully trust anyone again.She has a lifetime reminder that walks and talks that she was raped and tortured and no one gave a crap. She has a 7 year old sister and I can all but guarantee this baby was molested and raped as well.Seeing a story like this brings up pain to people like me that were victims of pigs like this. As a child about her age I was a victim of sexual assault not by the “boogy man” but a family friend. A "Dutch uncle" as they used to call them. I had no father so when an older "gentleman" took an interest in me wanting to "help" Mom buying me gifts taking me places acting like a segregate father I am sure my Mom was pleased that a man a male "role model" had taken an interest in me. She had a house full of kids no man and struggled financing and could give us little and not much one on one attention. So when "uncle so and so" who was married 30 years had grown kids came around she thought he was a kind man wanting to help.He helped himself to my innocence, to any chance of a normal life with a partner, to any chance I could trust completely another human being even my own mother. Even if a parent does not see the abuse and is not aware the child still feels that the parent did not protect them there by goes the feelings" I can not trust anyone not even my Mom".I am late 50's now and only since getting into the Bible and trusting God alone have I started finding some peace within. It has taken over 40 years and I am still not there. I have come to realized I will never completely be there. As much as I love my spouse and I do I will always be waiting for the other shoe to drop. For the bottom to fall out of my life and as hard as I fight against it I can never 100 percent trust anyone.
As much as love my husband he is my best friend and he is second only to God in my life, I made him take a lie detector test before I will agree to marry him to prove that he had no inclination towards children because of my grandchildren I already had when we met. . I know in my soul if a man touches one of my grandchildren and I have the opportunity to get to him I will put a gun to his forehead and blow his brains out and not blink an eye. I will show no more compassion than that for shooting a rabid dog. I would feel worse for the dog at least they could not help it.
I have heard the agreement that because this garbage is molested as kids that is what caused them to molest kids. Not in this particular case but in a lot of them in their legal wrangling. That is total bull. As a person that has been abused and raped at an early age I would give my life in a moment for a total stranger’s child if it means that baby would not be touched.
If an option were presented to me, your life or a baby having to endure what this child did I would give my life freely.
We as a nation, as families, as strangers have to pay closer attention to children and their surroundings. We are all so caught up in cell phones, texting, and computers and crap like that we don’t even look each other in the face anymore in public we have our faces glued to a cell phone or Blackberry.
We are giving away our children to be raised by teachers, judges and pedophiles. Some are one and the same.
It is so disheartening to read about a teacher male or female having sex with a child and you can call it whatever you want it is RAPE. If that child is under the age of content and ESPECIALLY if you are in a position of power or influence over their lives such as a pastor, teacher or police officer the punishment should triple automatically.
It is interesting and confusing to me the double standards of the press and law enforcement when a man had contact with the students it raped assault whatever, a woman and it is “inappropriate relationship”. Nothing could be farther from the truth. It is still rape of a child, you are a pedophile no if ands or buts. You should be on trial for rape male or female.
Until we stop looking at sexual exploitation of a child as a victimless crime it will continue to brutalize generation after generation of our children. The government has allowed the internet to take over and it is full of these pedophiles and those that want to profit financially from the exploitation of children and young girls, boys and women.
Men seem to think looking at porn is harmless but it is not just an affront to the spouse you have but to any female or child in your life and in the lives of others. To use someone to take those types of photos and or video the damage never goes away. Their self respect is gone, their childhood is gone and ruined, and their lives are forever altered. Even when a woman does this willingly she victimizes herself. No woman wakes up one day and says, “I want to be a porn star when I grow up” or “I want to be on the cover of Playboy or Hustler “when I grow up. Something or someone has injured them mentally and or physically to the point of numbness and the self esteem has been stripped from them.
Looking at porn and or pictures of people adults or children is the same thing as looking at a picture malnourished baby from Ethiopia or from Haiti in the earthquake zone and taking a picture of their swollen belly, pencil thin arms and legs and flies buzzing around their mouth and putting it is a ornate frame and putting it on your dinner table while you eat Thanksgiving dinner and thinking how lovely, how beautiful she is how erotic really turns me on.
Can you see how sick that is? Can you see where you would think you need therapy? If you don’t then you are sicker than you could possibly imagine.
As I person that has lived and survived, for the most part, this kind of hell on earth I am very aware of children and their surroundings. I felt something was wrong with two close families’ member’s children and their step parent /figure. I questioned and took action and I was right. He got two 20 year terms in the state pen. But in 4 months he came up for patrol if I had not gone to every single parole hearing he would have been released back into the world in 6 months! I went every year for 10 years, every year for ten years I recounted what happened and what the impact was on those two babies and in doing so relived my own pain year after year and almost had a mental break down the same time every year because of the waves of emotion that would overwhelm me.
About the time I would start to recover it would be time to do it again. But I would do it gladly again and again because I know standing up and doing this saved other children from being raped and abused by him.
A member of the parole board once told me “he is in an offender program and should he not have the chance to prove he is rehabilitated? “ I asked her if she had young daughters. She said, “Yes I do, what difference does that makes?” I told her I would be willing to take a chance on his “rehabilitation” on one condition and that is if she would be willing to move him into her home and allow him to babysit her kids while she was at work. You would have thought I asked for the keys to her car!!! Suddenly a light bulb came on like someone throwing a switch.
When you put a pedophile back on the street the way you find out he is indeed an incurable animal that I know he or she is you find out it did not work when they are once again caught hurting a child. I am not apologizing then or now for not being willing to take that chance. Once a person has been found out believe that they are the sick animals they are and put them down like a dog or lock them away where they will never see the light of day again. “If you hand offends you cut it off and cast it out”.
Better words were never spoken. Do not come to me with forgiveness talk towards these people. You can only forgive a behavior someone is sorry for and has the ability to not do again. This behavior is in their DNA they were born damaged and will die that way.
They only thing that made it possible for me to live and partly recover was the fact we moved two states away from my offender so I did not have to be around him again and he died shortly afterwards. The man that raped my family members served 10 years and I kept an eye on him every place he went afterwards warning neighbors etc. He died a few years after prison to and I hope he is sitting with my rapist on the highest and hottest coals of hells fire.
People we have to lay down the cell phone, the IPODs the work from the office. We have to turn off the TV’s and talk to our kids, watch them notice them and look for anything out of the ordinary. Work less hours buy less stuff, kids need us not 300 tennis shoes and thousands of dollars in video games. We have become a nation of hoarders or stuff, look at the garages we can not park or cars in, the full clothes, full rooms, and it does not fill the need for connection. We have become so connected technologically that we have totally disconnected emotionally and physically. I was visiting my grandkids and one of them texted me from across the living room. I thought I would fall off the chair. Is this what we are killing ourselves working for? Is this what we are leaving our children alone or with people we barley know every day for? To afford to give them cell phones to talk to us with? So that pedophiles can woo them with attention and groom them so they fall easily to their victims?
America we all need to wake up and smell the coffee. Go back to the basics of what life should be.
God first, family second, and money third. There is no other way.
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